IT TAKES TWO by
Gene Boccialetti
In today's challenging environment managers and employees face constant demands to
change. And while much attention has been paid to changes managers need to make to develop
new leadership skills, little attention has been given to managing oneself in the role of
being a subordinate.
With a basic understanding of the different ways people approach being a subordinate
and some idea of your own style, you can learn to become more flexible in your approach.
Flexibility is key to you and your boss experiencing more effective working relationships.
MAIN FACTORS IN SUBORDINATE STYLE
Deference:
The importance placed on exerting influence in the relationship with your boss.
Distance:
The preference for having or not having a personal relationship with your boss.
Divergence:
The tendency to agree or disagree with your boss over goals and the methods of achieving
them.
ORIENTATIONS TO MANAGING RELATIONSHIPS
Deference, distance, and divergence commonly combine to form nine styles describing
subordinate authority relationships which can be grouped into three supercategories.
Accommodating Styles: Tend to be high on
deference and low on divergence. They usually agree with those in authority.
1. Military: Rarely push for influence and tend not to see their bosses as
allies.
2. Helper: Want influence, but will not push hard for it. They see their role
as the trusting helpmate.
3. Diplomat: Seek personal contact with their bosses. If there is
disagreement, they prefer artful maneuvering over confrontation.
4. Partisan: Their overriding obligation is to their bosses and not to the
organization.
Autonomous Styles: Their common
characteristic is low deference. They prefer general directions and dislike being closely
monitored.
5. Independent: Want influence for both ideological and practical reasons.
They are not comfortable in an implementer role.
6. Counselor: Have a strong sense of themselves as experts and like personal
relationships with their bosses.
Adversarial Styles: Generally
characterized by low deference and high divergence. These subordinates want pull with
their bosses who they see as adversaries or competitors.
7. Gamesman: Have strong technical skills and usually disagree with their
bosses over goals and methods.
8. Rebel: Openly challenge those in authority based on
personal resistance to structure.
9. WhistIebIower: Defer to their bosses until their ethical breaking point is
reached, then they go public with their complaints.
ACTION STEPS TO DEVELOP MORE FLEXIBILITY
Start with dialogue and find out if your boss thinks you are working together effectively.
Ask your boss to evaluate you on the three factors of deference, distance and divergence.
Bring underused traits into play in appropriate situations.
Establish behavioral indicators that show whether you are or are not doing what you set
out to do. Get ongoing feedback from your boss.
Repeat steps one through four-and keep adjusting until shifting your subordinate
orientation becomes second nature.
MANAGING YOUR OWN SUBORDINATES
Since you are also a boss, it is important to "reverse the lens" and consider
how you manage those who report to you. Be sensitive to their styles in relation to your
own and the work tasks faced. Doing so will enhance organizational effectiveness and
efficiency.
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Dealing With Sexual
Harassment
Heightened concern over sexual harassment in the workplace has increased pressure for
businesses to deal with the problem. Business owners and entrepreneurs must protect their
employees and businesses from sexual harassment. Stephen Pepe, head of labor and
employment law with a Los Angeles-based law firm, urges businesses to take the following
preventive steps in order to stay clear of sexual harassment problems.
Establish
a written sexual harassment policy. State in no uncertain terms the type of
behavior you consider unacceptable, such as dirty jokes, sexual innuendoes, and sexist
cartoons. Give a copy to every one of your employees. "Quite simply, when it comes to
sexual harassment" notes Pepe, "you do not have freedom of expression in the
workplace."
Enforce your policy. Encourage employees to report sexual harassment without fear
of retribution. If there appears to be a strong basis for the claims, act upon them. Pepe
suggests discipline ranging from warnings and suspensions to termination, depending on the
amount of evidence available.
Lead by example. If a certain behavior. even if done unintentionally, could be
construed as sexual harassment, don't do it. Any kind of inappropriate behavior should not
be tolerated.
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"Getting
Lucky"
By Tom Peters
Several readers have criticized some recent columns that suggested business success was
largely a matter of luck. They miss my point: If you believe success is mostly due to
luck, there are strategies you can pursue to lure luck out of hiding. (By contrast, if you
believe that orderly plans and getting up an hour earlier than the next person are the
answer, then by all means arise before the rooster and start planning.)
Try following these 30 strategies:
1. At bats. More times at the plate, more hits.
2. Read odd stuff. Look anywhere for ideas.
3. Visit odd places. Want to "see" speed? Visit CNN.
4, Make odd friends.
5. Hire odd people. Boring folks, boring ideas.
6. Cultivate odd hobbies. Raise orchids. Race yaks.
7. Ask dumb questions. "How come computer commands all come from
keyboards?" That's how the mouse was born.
8. Empower. Folks who "own" the task take more at bats.
9. Pursue failure. Failure is success's only launching pad. (The bigger the better!)
10. Root out "not invented here." Swipe from the best.
11. Constantly reorganize. Mix, match. Shake things up.
12. Listen to everyone. Ideas come from anywhere.
13. Nurture intuition. If you can find an interesting idea that's come from a rational
plan, I'11 eat my hat.
14. Forget the same tired trade association meetings, talking with the same tired people
about the same tired things.
15. Smash all functional barriers. Unfettered contact among people from different
disciplines is magic.
16. Spend a workday each week at home.
17. Open the books. Make everyone a '"businessperson," with access to all the
financials.
18. Share all information. The more real-time information front-line people you have the
more "neat stuff" happens.
19. Vary your pattern. Eat a different breakfast cereal. Take a different route to work.
20. Spend half your time with "outsiders." Distributors and vendors will give
you more ideas in five minutes than another five-hour committee meeting.
21. Spread confusion in your wake. Keep people off balance: Don't let the ruts get deeper
than they already are.
22. Stir curiosity. Igniting youthful curiosity in followers is the lead dog's top task,
per Sony Chairman Akio Morita.
23. Take sabbaticals.
24. Take off your jacket and tie.
25. Roll up your sleeves.
26. Take off your shoes.
27. Get out of your office. Tell me, honestly, the last time something creative happened
at that big table in your office.
28. Destroy hierarchies.
29. Nurture peripheral vision. Most interesting "stuff" goes on beyond the
professional's ever-narrowing line of sight.
30. Don't "help." Let people slip and trip--and grow and learn. As a manager,
you earn the bulk of your pay for zipping your lips and letting.them stumble forward.
Reprinted with permission from the Chicago Tribune.
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Take sabbaticals. Take off your jacket and tie. Roll up your
sleeves. Take off your shoes. Get out of your office. Tell me, honestly, the last time
something creative happened at that big table in your office. |
Shaking Off A Mid-Career Slump
The symptoms of a mid-career slump are easy to spot, the solutions not so easy to
apply. Sometimes a slump can last a week, sometimes a year. Maybe forever. If you're in a
slump, try to get out of it immediately. Here are symptoms and some solutions:
Slump symptoms:
Lackluster?
Do you work half-heartedly? You'll know this symptom if it takes longer to get things done
in the first few hours of the day.
Tired?
Do you tire frequently? This is worse than working half-heartedly. You'll know this
symptom if you're tired in the morning and exhausted by 3:30 p.m.
Procrastinator?
Do you procrastinate--especially in the area of decision making? It's a sure sign of job
weariness.
Slump solutions:
Change.
Remember that you must change, not your organization. Try looking at your job through
different eyes, and tell yourself you'll accomplish one task one step at a time.
Rededicate.
Work as hard as you can on every project.
Set
goals. Write them down. Strive to achieve them!
Beep,
don't sleep. Buy a watch that beeps on the hour. Every time you hear a beep, ask
yourself if you're working as hard as you believe you can and if you're accomplishing your
goals.
© by and reprinted with permission of "Effective Executive", The
Dartnell Corporation, 4660 N. Ravenswood Avenue, Chicago. IL 60640
Take
This Waste-Cutting Quiz
Candid answers to these five questions could help you cut waste:
Does this activity add value, improve quality, enhance customer service, improve
communication, increase employee motivation and morale, encourage innovation or speed
decision making? Note: Any activity that doesn't rate a 4 or 5 on a scale of 10 is a
definite "no"-to 5- a definite "yes"--probably wastes time and
resources.
Would it matter if we halted the activity? What would the con- sequences be? Are the
consequences worth the cost of continuing the activity? · Are we duplicating activities--
either intentionally or without realizing it? · Who started this activity and how and
when did it start? Does the reason for starting the activity still make sense? · Can
another person, business unit or company perform the activity better, faster or cheaper?
Are we doing jobs, making parts or offering services that we could outsource?
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Alexandria, VA 22314. (800) 888-2084.
| With a basic understanding of the different ways people approach being a
subordinate and some idea of your own style, you can learn to become more flexible in your
approach. |
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The Positive Side of Complaints
It costs less to keep the customers you have than to find new ones. And one of the best
ways to keep them is to treat their complaints as gifts. Here's how:
Thank
customers and explain why you're pleased that they complained. Example:
"Thank you. I'm glad that you told me so I can fix this for you and prevent it from
happening again."
Apologize
for the problem. Note: This should not be the first step. Your apology will pack
more punch if it comes after you've thanked them and explained why you're glad they
complained.
Promise
to deal with the problem right away. Hearing you say this relaxes the customers
because they know you're going to act.
Collect
all the information you need. Ask: "So I can act quickly on this, could you
please give me some information?"
Correct
the mistake--and do it as quickly as possible.
Follow
up to make sure customers are satisfied with what you've done.
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Alexandria, VA 22314. (800) 888-2084.
Tips of
the Month
Give your
name and phone number first when you leave a message an an answering machine. Reason:
Listeners who need to hear your phone number again won't replay the entire message to get
it.
Keep this
in mind: 'You're never not communicating." Reason: What you don't say may
say as much as what you do say. And where you spend your time can send as clear a message
as what you do while you're there.
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Alexandria, VA 22314, (800) 888-2084.
| "Do it now" is more than a motto; it is a way of life.
Character grows when "do it now" becomes a habit. William
Arthur Ward |
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